It is often hard to watch loved ones go through something painful, whether emotional or physical. It has been a wonderful lesson that i have experienced from time to time in my life that someone else's journey is just that... theirs. Our job is to love and support in any way we can. If we buy into sharing their pain in some way, get emotional or retreat then we can no longer be the support they truly need.
Over the last couple of weeks I have laughed with Lorraine and pulled her up with kindness and love when she views this all in a negative light. And when she finally lands in Basel I can be there for her by helping her process through Journey work, and the like.
Lorraine I send you my love, support and warmest blessings. Get well my girl.